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I have eyes but cannot see – Eyes.

a short bit of prose

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Eyes

I have eyes but cannot see,
I have ears but cannot hear.
I have a mouth but cannot speak,
What the heck is the matter with me?

Life’s challenges seem bigger than me,
Can we all love in harmony?
Why can’t they see, is it just me,
Or is the world sort of dozy?

We try to hard to fly in the skies,
With our egos pressing for more,
Can we ever be free from the outside of me?
Give love and take love thats for sure.

Half baked half awake, we tend to be,
careful with your heart, what you see,
You will become what we tend to be.
Take the road to peace and joy.

blame or  criticism and lack of love,
Is not what the world is intended to be.
Try hard to find true love and peace
In everything that you see.

Relax and breathe,
Just let the world be
You can’t push past love,
You can’t push the sea.

The truth is inside of me.
the truth must be.

By
pablo

Meditation on the Heart

Meditation on the Heart


Sit down sometime, relax, and breathe easily for a few moments.
Then allow your eyes to relax, closed. Breathe slower and long in and out
slowly.  5-10 seconds for in breath and 5-10 for the out.
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Stay like this and repeat for 10 -30 minutes. While doing this as well,
of Course you can Multitask, men have a tougher time here with that!.

Feel the left side of your chest, eventually you can feel the actual heart
beating. Your whole body is expanding and contracting with each breath
and the beating of your Heart. Your body is so busy; it feels like Earth
Quakes from all the action. Feel the gentle heart, it never fails you.
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Even when you are tired, sick, no strength, your loving Heart never fails
or says “Hey, Leave me alone for a few minutes to catch my Breath!”
or gets Lazy like I do sometimes, it Never Misses a Beat.
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Feel love like the type that you feel for Mom, closest lover, whatever made you feel wonderful!

Go there in your mind, it’s not a sin. Stay there and still breathe in and out slowly.

This will make your eyes shine and heart to Glow.

We condition good or bad, each day no matter what experience. We make it ours.

If you just live your life with normal daily stuff you will feel normal daily.

Wonderful, Ten Feet off the Ground, Beaming with so much inside love
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Jambodhi



Instructions for Quiet Meditation – Tips and steps.

How to do Quiet Meditation Practice Mindfulness is Experiential or Feeling Thinking,  feeling the senses and the mind together. You fully smell, feel and see the roses,  As opposed to “Thinking Thinking”, where you do not notice the world as much and predominately in thoughts only. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .   … Read More

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Find Love

 

 

 

Find Love


Beauty must be from the same source,
Nature and God in fine Glory,
inspiring mortals from Heavens above?

Give love, yourself and time,
heart empathic divine.

Sweet angel who loves,
Nature, Man, Woman,
Loves a wonderful heart.

Laughed, Cried, forgot to breathe,
as I fell gently to her knees.

Children playing with toys,
Every moment always joy.

Spring is when flowers will bloom,
light of love sweet and sublime,
reveals delicate petals divine.

Open curtains, air out the mind,
open the heart, receive sunshine,
Be fully Alive for day is Divine.

Open the cellar when ready,
offer only the humblest bouquet,
made of quality, solid and steady.

Though Life is momentary,  take time to Love.

Have a taste of joy, wonder,  and find Love.

 

PROSE by JamBodhi


PROSE by JamBodhi  

Nature, People and God have inspired the Muse inside. Some are like Haiku, simple others  complex.

This Blog will be appended regularly with feelings in words and insights, as living prose felt and written down by me.

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Love life long

Give and take love, what have we always done?

Climb into my arms and around them again

Soon we’ll be taller, and smaller, don’t you tell!

The play and fun begin, like babes with love.

Care for each other, until the end.

Love, Laugh, cry, until.
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Imagine Love


Love for the moment, even for only a second.
Love for an entire day, with someone you know.
love for a life time of friendship and play.

…prose to be completed later today…….


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Love is a Verb


Inwardly hold onto the power of truth,
which is so strong that it exerts an invisible force in life.

We will all ask some day why we must love, laugh, and cry.
Life and love are not options.

Love is love eternal – don’t damn the River, along the path of love and life.
God bless us all, for we will always be blind to the full truth.

With gifts in life, intelligence or art, try to be sensible,
simple and honest. Give away your best wishes from the heart.

Sometimes life can make things almost impossible for God;
Sometimes God can make things almost impossible for life.

Everything earthly is transitory – but we hold on,
won’t release the precious past.

We must rest in the moment even when in movement.
Silently observe what is all around.

Add more care and sharing in this world of “Me”. Add No More pain to this world.
Try if you can to have some Faith, things could change. It will never Rain Always.

We keep in our minds our suffering and our bliss, which one would you, prefer?
Suffering is not getting what you want, whether that’s pleasure or pain.

Light Giving Power Expands, becoming great – change is Life itself.
Spring is Approaching, Joy and Forbearance bring high and low together.

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Love Oh Lover

Is it not my own inmost being that I recognized in all the beauty around me?

Love! It was light–and I had been blind! It hurt,
my heart beat so violently and my eyes burned.

The world was a fire, and all things were strange, and began.

What is Love? “It is Beauty, the earthly form of the formless,
calling up in you the rhythm of that movement by which you will enter into Oneness”.

Gently they clasp one another by the hand, and move on through life,
swayed by the same impulse, towards the same goal.
Call this love if you will.

Souls of those who love are like two white clouds floating softly side by side,
that vanish, wafted by the same wind, into the infinite blue of the heavens.

Love is not the desire to see the loved one absorbed;
love is the longing to be always with her;
the deep yearning for the blending of the two souls in one;

The leaves of the trees fade in autumn,
and the withered flowers droop sadly to the ground.
How can you love that so much which does not last?

A poet looks upon a woman; he perceives the beauty of the beloved in all things,
for the beauty of a woman is the same as that of Nature.

The pain in my head comes from my heart. But it is such an enjoyable pain to be
Alive with Smells and tastes so fully!.

Out of tears will grow strength, through pain attain peace. Poetry and Love are one,
sheltered by love which is eternal.

Be only simple of heart, and you will discover everything without effort,
like a child finding flowers.

All Nature is filled with sacred awe, and my soul too thrills with ecstasy,
for she has looked upon her beloved!

(Lao Tzu 50% and my Prose 50% in between and my Translations/Interpretation)
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Where is Love


Be with one with me, oh beautiful love and peace divine.
Fame and fortune in Love, don’t abandon or flee.

Resolve this longing in my heart to be in love and free,
bring fulfillment to my eyes so I can see.

I wish to adorn you, praise you with Love so fine.
Love you, hold you and merge yours and mine.

Oh Love that could be, share this joy in me.
With these strong hands and heart of mine,
please bring me a love so divine.

Oh dear God, hear my calls to thee,
Do not let Love miss it’s mark in me,
let me drink from this fine wine.

Tender tears fall softly for the world,
for the world should have joy and happiness.
Rain brings sunshine, and reborn anew.
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Red Heart

Any big red heart can become blue.
Be careful with love and all that you do.

Love with care, make it always new.
Treat each day as something special with you.

Someday we may leave this place from this view,
Your life must be full with more than something to do.

Love all things as precious as you; the world is our oyster,
Treat it as you.

There will always be pain and gain,
What else is there to do?

Everything is only scenery along the way,
your journey will end some day.

Be kind to all you know, let all things grow,
help all others, don’t be kind to just good friends.

All journeys must have an end,
no need for sorrow, my friend.

Paid the price, watched the show,
why the sorrow, we’re back tomorrow.

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Real

People know each other visually,
the eyes tell us who is cool!

They are outward appearances,
a fabulous fashion show.

Who knows what’s inside? It’s beyond the view,
it could be nice or not at all like you.

Talk to each other, but never taking the time,
to unwrap the person, the real me inside.

Who I really am has little to do, with my face,
or my looks, just like you.

There’s millions of faces, some sweeter than others,
but often people can be so shallow.

What if you got to know someone,
and there was no view?

Could you appreciate them, respect them,
find them vibrant with you?

Could you come to love the real person,
in someone, rather than the shell?

What if we were two blind people who met,
somewhere in the world.

After thoughts and laughter and cry’s to forget,
we might come to see what the other is made of.

Could you come to love someone who you respect,
someone who doesn’t praise as might a pet.

Minds merge in compassion and sympathy,
or trivial issues will always be there.

What would I think of you, and how would I feel,
Your feelings about me, what would we do?

Could I come to feel love too,
could this happen to you?

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. . . a little myth. Bardo. Rebirth. Angels.

I rented a move a few years ago about people in Heaven.
Sometimes life can be like a movie, not all the same. But you get the idea…..

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Imagine two angels in Heaven, happy and in love. ….

No worries or cares, just play and simple love.

One day the train to earth, comes along to send her back to Earth again.
Sadly, she enters the train, and her lover goes before God to plea.

Reasoning and crying he makes a strong case.

God see’s how much he adores and cherishes the angel that was sent to a new home below.

Of course even God must follow God’s own Rules.

God spoke gently, “Go to Earth and find your lost love, I must make it hard
for those who are above. You will not be able to tell from her looks, and will not send you too near.

Your challenge is twofold my son;
- first to find such a one, and second to secure the same fate.

And how will you tell her that she is your old mate? It will not be easy for even you to know!

The angel descended and awaited his fate, reborn, remember the cause,
so many obstacles, he might give up or pause.

Maybe not ever recognize her or her fate. Or she him if by chance that
they meet.  Imagine hard it would be if there was no street, only bits and bytes of someone from a past life.

. . . who knows?

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Friend


I miss our time together, dear friend of mine.

Don’t be too shy, or removed, I’m real, not bits or bites.

We used to cry and play in the electronic sandbox,

and share real thoughts out loud and laugh.

If some day we all must die, please God try to explain why.

I don’t want any expiry date on love and lost is just too much.

Just doesn’t seem fair, why God can’t let us be.

How does this seem fair and right?

Just because were in God’s Sight.

Doesn’t help at all, when I’m left all alone.

In Spite of Complaints from me, why all the respite?

But if we all refused and went on Strike,

what would God do?


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Haiku of Song

Music so sweet, and beautiful, as though sound from heaven,
descended below.

I was in tears of joy and felt like the Goddess of beauty surrounded
and enveloped me into a sweet cloud of ecstasy.

Venus, as beauty and joy all merged for long moments.

Everything changes even beauty and love,
or their would be no contrasts.

Black defines white, woman defines man, night define day,
where you end, I begin, then we are completed again.

Love is like a rose, you pine to hold it in your hands,
it hurts when you do, cry when it’s gone.

The soul is feminine and the Divine,
What could be more gentle than a woman,
which bears and births, man or woman?

Life is about seeing love and life combined,
together like wings of a bird.

To be truly great, flight is only possible with both heart and mind,
not ego.

Woman is close to God, but this can be obscured by
her observing her own self, her local beauty.

Exterior beauty is what the world see’s, and responds,
not the divine inside. Some have paid the price to see
the truth and are not blinded.

Men are lost the second they look into a woman’s eyes,
lost in interest, can become love/lust,
it’s hardwired by the maker.

All paths are tough, wrong ones or right, or in between.
Look, breathe, listen and pay attention only,
but not as thoughts as senses.

The world is full of magic, but there is dust on the eyes -
What we see reminds us of the beauty of all,
but this is like roots under the flowers.

is it the flowers or the roots? Which will grow again next year?
It is not you that man see’s love, it is deeper,
it is the universal and the man is confused and thinks its the woman.

Our mind is all we are, not faces, or people,
like an invisible jelly fish, felt in the heart,
not with the thinking, you will never figure it out
with the brain.

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Jambodhi   … ♥ …

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How to do Quiet Meditation Practice


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How to do Quiet Meditation Practice

 

 

 

Mindfulness is Experiential or Feeling Thinking, feeling the senses and the mind together.

You fully smell, feel and see the roses, As opposed to “Thinking Thinking”, where you do not notice the world as much and predominately in thoughts only.

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Steps to help you practice:     S t a g e s   t o   Q u i e t   M e d i t a t i o n

 

The mind,  originally marvelous,  clear,  and bright suddenly emerges,  the original light shines fully at last.

Use one step at a time to become more quiet and relaxed.  This is Concentration Training,  and learning to relax the Mind and Body while Focused.   Expert level and mastering can take time, but even attempting these methods produces immediate benefits.

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Regular practice is the only way to learn, practice every day and week is better than once in awhile.
Shorter periods at first, ten minutes at most to start, then increase to 30 minutes twice per day.
Noise or distractions should not bother you, and can actually help.

Try going someplace so quiet you could hear a pin drop, and any sounds can become distracting against the silence.  If sound occurs,  don’t allow yourself to be bothered by the sounds

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▪  Find a place to practice Sitting Quietly; neither too hot, nor too cold, not too dark or too light.

▪  You should not have eaten too much or have a hungry feeling. Clothing is lose and not tight.

▪  A certain and Definite Sitting Position is recommended, sit cross legged on the floor if possible, or sit in chair with back straight.  Hold hands together without locking fingers, relax the hands.

Relax and sit quietly in a comfortable position but not lying flat down on back.

We tend to use the body as indication of what activity we are doing.

Lying down makes us feel like we are about to go to sleep. Sit in chair or on floor with cross legs, don’t try advanced Yoga at this time; just sit comfortably without strain or too much pain.

Breathe Slowly, Calmly and Regularly. As you begin to meditate, clear your mind of all thoughts.

When thoughts arise, notice it and then Dismiss it, return back to your calm, clear mind.

Continue to do this over time and you will eventually find that the thoughts intrude less and less and that your concentration becomes more natural.

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♥ Breath Observations. Relax shoulders, breathe in slowly, Observe, Breathe out slowly, and Observe Watchfully – makes us quiet and peaceful. Increases attention and focus. Use the sensation of the Breathe at the Nostrils for focus, but don’t allow the mind to think about anything other than the sensation of the nose. Relax and be patient with yourself and your breathing. If you exhale smoothly, without trying to exhale, you are entering into the complete perfect calmness of your mind.

Observe the breath leave the nose, and get warmer when air leaves the nose. The side of the nostrils get cold when air enters the body, and there also may be other sensations around the face and nose that are apparent.

Close your eyes and focus your attention on your breathing. Be aware as you breathe in and out. Allow the air to lift the rib cage slightly as you breathe in, then fall as you breathe out. Follow your breaths, in and out for several minutes at first, until eventually you can remain quiet and focused. Do for ten minutes to start, and increase to thirty minutes.

♥ Physical Observations. In your mind, sense the feeling of touch and sensations in the foot, and move the observation slowly up the body until the top of the head is reached. Don’t force the attention; allow the attention to feel the sensations without interpreting. Go slowly; take thirty minutes to go from bottom of Feet to Top of Head.

This develops the ability to have “Experiential or Feeling Thinking”, as opposed to “Thinking Thinking”, where you fully smell and see the roses, normally you might not actually experience them fully, due to being in the river of thoughts in our mind.

♥ Quiet Observation. Sit and do not engage in thinking, continue with the observing sensations in the body. The attention is tight not lose and sleepy.

♥ Walking Meditation. Walk slowly with total attention to the weight of the feet and the act of lifting the feet and placing the foot for each step. Plan the start and stop of the range of the walk, and Walk for 10 minutes at first.

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Short Meditation on the Heart and Love.

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Just breathe in and out slowly, and your mind will come to rest.  You will be very aware, but rambling thoughts will slow down and cease.

Stay with the quietness of your breathing as the only focus to cool the mind down a bit.

When you feel more relaxed, open the Mind to the Heart.

Feel your left side of the body where the actual Heart is located.

Relax and breathe in and out with the focus on nostrils and the gentle beating heart.

Stay in this focus for at least 10-30 minutes and go longer more and more.

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We keep in our minds our suffering and our bliss, which one would you, prefer?

There is no argument or sadness if we saw ourselves clearly.

We take with us our positive or negative all our lives and past into the Next Moment and next Life.
We make our Own Seriousness about Negativity or Suffering.

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All of us are Drifting along the Lanes of Life, become more peaceful and loving everyday and whenever you can practice a bit more, it’s all practice and re-conditioning our negative self to see our positive life, no matter what happens, no matter how hard.

We all need perspective, which show us our Life’s Dilemma clearly.

Like any good General in the field, you must find a place above yourself in order to see the whole battle field.

There are many ways to get this perspective, Prayer, Meditation, sitting quietly without distraction or wandering thoughts, and resting in the moment entirely.

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Like a moth into the flames, we must use our whole being each moment in total wakefulness.

Suffering is not getting what you want, whether that’s pleasure or pain.

Mindfulness allows pain or suffering to exist by going into the pain.

The mind can realize there is nothing to fear for we are not ourselves, who suffer.

We are deep pure awareness, not the body or the mind.

We are just awareness itself empty of self or permanence, peaceful quietude that even pain cannot touch, this is discovered with mindfulness, not even meditation will help, if there is no “mindfulness”.

Sometimes people can get high from meditation, but this is lower than the experience of  Being Completed.

Emptiness is the single state of the universe. Empty means, not two or more, but a singular oneness.
Full minds are never empty. Empty minds see other minds completely;  a natural self.

Tibetan Lama:
All forms are appearance-emptiness, like dreams, All sounds are sound-emptiness, like radio songs, And all thoughts are inseparable bliss-emptiness.

 

 

 

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Ascent of Mount Carmel – St. John of the Cross

Ascent of Mount Carmel – St. John of the Cross

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Ascent of Mount Carmel is an incomparable guide to the spiritual life
– because its author has lived his own counsel.

This begins with a description of the state of Illumination:

‘Twas that light guided me,
More surely than the noonday’s brightest glare –

and end with that of the life of Union:

All things for me that day
Ceas’d, as I slumber’d there,
Amid the lilies drowning all my care?

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To the place where he (well I knew who!) was awaiting me –
A place where none appeared.

5. Oh, night that guided me, Oh, night more lovely than the
dawn, Oh, night that joined Beloved with lover,
Lover transformed in the Beloved!

6. Upon my flowery breast, Kept wholly for himself alone,
There he stayed sleeping, and I caressed him, And the
fanning of the cedars made a breeze.

7. The breeze blew from the turret As I parted his locks;
With his gentle hand he wounded my neck And caused all
my senses to be suspended.

8. I remained, lost in oblivion; My face I reclined on the
Beloved.

All ceased and I abandoned myself, Leaving my cares
forgotten among the lilies.

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Afterwards, in the second part of this night, they will be
understood according to that which is spiritual.

11. The lines are these:
In order to arrive at having pleasure in everything,
Desire to have pleasure in nothing.

In order to arrive at possessing everything,
Desire to possess nothing.

In order to arrive at being everything,
Desire to be nothing.

In order to arrive at knowing everything,
Desire to know nothing.

In order to arrive at that wherein thou hast no pleasure,
Thou must go by a way wherein thou hast no pleasure.

In order to arrive at that which thou knowest not,
Thou must go by a way that thou knowest not.

In order to arrive at that which thou possessest not,
Thou must go by a way that thou possessest not.

In order to arrive at that which thou art not,
Thou must go through that which thou art not.

12. When thy mind dwells upon anything,
Thou art ceasing to cast thyself upon the All.

For, in order to pass from the all to the All
Thou hast to deny thyself wholly in all.

And, when thou comest to possess it wholly,
Thou must possess it without desiring anything.

For, if thou wilt have anything in having all,
Thou hast not thy treasure purely in God.

13. In this detachment the spiritual soul finds its quiet and repose;
for, since it covets nothing, nothing wearies it when it is lifted up,
and nothing oppresses it when it is cast down.

Because it is in the center of its humility; but when it covets
anything, at that very moment it becomes wearied.

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Love is a Verb

Love is a Verb

Love is the act, the Verb of loving that emanates from inside to outside.

Inwardly hold onto the power of truth,

which is so strong that it exerts an invisible force in life.

We will all ask some day why we must love, laugh, and cry.
Life and love are not options.

Love is love eternal – don’t damn the River, along the path of love and life.
God bless us all, for we will always be blind to the full truth.

With gifts in life, intelligence or art, try to be sensible,
simple and honest. Give away your best wishes from the heart.

Sometimes life can make things almost impossible for God;
Sometimes God can make things almost impossible for life.

Everything earthly is transitory – but we hold on,
won’t release the precious past.

We must rest in the moment even when in movement.
Silently observe what is all around.

Add more care and sharing in this world of “Me”. Add No More pain to this world.
Try if you can to have some Faith, things could change. It will never Rain Always.

We keep in our minds our suffering and our bliss, which one would you, prefer?
Suffering is not getting what you want, whether that’s pleasure or pain.

Light Giving Power Expands, becoming great – change is Life itself.
Spring is Approaching, Joy and Forbearance bring high and low together.

Meditate on love and beauty so you don’t have to even think about it,
you will shine from the inside to the out.

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Music’s Beauty

Music’s Beauty


Music so sweet, and beautiful, as though sound from heaven,
descended below.

I was in tears of joy and felt like the Goddess of beauty surrounded and enveloped me into a sweet cloud of ecstasy.
Venus, as beauty and joy all merged for long moments.

My mind reminded me that everything changes even beauty and love,or their would be no contrasts.
Black defines white, woman defines man, night define day,
where you end, I begin, then we are completed again.

Life is like a rose, it hurts while you hold it, After you lose it, and pine when its gone.

God is like big mother not father, mother always forgave,
father was not as.

The soul is feminine and so is the Divine,
What could be more gentle than a woman,
which bares and births, man or woman?

All paths are tough, wrong ones or right, or in between.
Look, breathe, listen and pay attention only,
but not as thoughts as senses.

The world is full of magic, but there is dust on the eyes -
What we see reminds us of the beauty of all,
but this is like roots under the flowers.

Is it the flowers or the roots? Which will grow again next year?

It is not you that man see’s love, it is deeper,
it is the universal, the man is confused, thinks it is the woman.

Our mind is Not all we are, nor faces, or people, felt in the heart,
not with the thinking, you will never figure it out with the brain.

We are pure souls divine.

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Romance and Dating


Seek out those that are patient, have time for you to sincerely share themselves.

Common interests, similar views are not as important as someone who will be true, love you when sick or healthy, or under the weather and cranky.

Never base interest in a man on his looks or appearance alone.

Likewise is also true about Women, never base interest on looks alone.

Do not play too Easy to get or too hard either!

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Never reveal yourself too much, leave some mystery for them later to uncover and discover!

Do not crowd them out, leave space for them to answer, think, and reflect.

All people need daily communications, if you like someone, make sure you take one or two minutes to stay in touch.  There is always time.

Frequency is the temperature. How often you talk is how hot it is!

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We all want to find someone to talk to, be with, as friend first and foremost.

A good friend is way better than a bad relationship.

Be mind full of is, is how much or little to communications occur.

Too much overloads anyone; too little the sparks of friendship die slowly.

Sometime people will use this to show that they are not interested but don’t have the assertiveness to tell you!

Start to be open to others as well if communications drips to a slow halt,

there are billions of people in the world and many who might actually enjoy being with you.

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Alcohol is big, but is known as Depressant. Be careful with a drinker, they can have mood swings and not be sensitive. Some of the best poetry came from Wine drinkers! Most of these poems are not positive, but ambivalent words that straddle love and loss. Sometimes alcohol can bring out new things, and be very careful to mix some water with the wine!

Look for someone who can get outside of themselves a bit, compassion and empathy are special traits and belong to sincere people.

Excellent hygiene and exercise are very important to be able to keep yourself feeling fine, and well tuned. Foods you eat contribute to body odor and some foods like special meats have chemicals and Junk food
that makes the body smell badly. Too much perfume or aftershave is also not recommended.

Dressing.  Due to the shallow nature of nearly the entire planet, sincerity and patience are usually counted as last to know, and how you look is Number One. Even if you’re the nicest person in the world, who will talk to you if you are not wearing something fairly nice and matching.

The point is to not over dress, or try to become too beautiful looking, unless you are a model for a job! Men get scared, or will be very interested for the wrong reasons. Exterior Beauty draws predators.

If there are too many interested friends, dress down and see who was sincere!  Almost all Men are meat flies for good looks, not inner worth.

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Never reveal your Lolita pictures until you really know a man. Or do not be too sexy, unless you want lots of male attention that is sexual.

This is one way to get herds of horny men sending you flowers or emails!
All men will get worked up really easily from a good view!

Sadly. They will not be interested in the Real you, qualities that make you who you are….they want Body contact only, to crush the flower with themselves to make them feel good, not you!

Blame this on our biology and God – it’s not a man’s fault!

Somewhere realistically dressed. Good looking fashion with some parts left to the imagination. Sexy is even more sexy with less revealed.

As painter, and sculptor, I see the bones and movement of the person, not their body only - the flow of them as they move inside of the clothes. This is part of the mystique and mystery and beauty of a woman, her vibration and music she plays with her own being.

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Quotes:

“Living is like tearing through a museum. Not until later do you really start absorbing what you saw, thinking about it, looking it up in a book, and remembering – because you can’t take it in all at once”
Audrey Hepburn

Love is a game that two can play and both win.   Eva Gabor

Love is the greatest refreshment in life.   Pablo Picasso

You know you’re in love when you don’t want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.   Dr. Seuss

In love, there is always one who kisses and one who offers the cheek. French Saying

Three things in human life are important. The first is to be kind.  The second is to be kind. And the third is to be kind. Henry James

Beauty is truth and truth beauty, that is all ye know on earth and all ye need to know. John Keats

Life is so sweet and bitter at the same time, short and infinite, full and empty. Love is the vibration that glues all to happiness. Jambodhi

At the touch of love, everyone becomes a poet.   Plato

Sometimes it’s a form of love just to talk to somebody that you have nothing in common with and still be fascinated by their presence.   David Byrne

Only in love are unity and duality not in conflict.  Rabindranath Tagore

Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit.   Peter Ustinov

Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence.  Eric Fromm

“You don’t love a woman because she’s beautiful; she is beautiful because you love her.”   Anonymous

Don’t compromise yourself. You are all you’ve got.   Janis Joplin

In politics, nothing happens by accident. If it happens, you can bet it was planned that way.   Franklin D. Roosevelt

To believe a thing is impossible is to make it so.  French Saying

One meets his destiny often in the road he takes to avoid it. French Saying

Partir, c’est mourir un peu. – To leave is to die a little. – French Saying

Pray to God, but keep rowing towards the shore. old Proverb

A heart that loves is always young. Greek Proverb

“We will open the book. Its pages are blank. We are going to put words on them ourselves. The book is called Opportunity and its first chapter is New Year’s Day.” Edith Lovejoy Pierce.

The thought manifests as the word, The word manifests as the deed,
The deed develops into habit, And habit hardens in character,  So watch the thought and its ways with care, And let it spring from love, Born out of concern for all beings…As the shadow follows the body, As we think, so we become.   Buddha (from the Dhammapada)

“When you are inspired by some great purpose, some extraordinary project, all your thoughts break their bonds. Your mind transcends limitations, your consciousness expands in every direction, and you find yourself in a new, great and wonderful world.
Dormant forces, faculties and talents become alive, and you discover yourself to be a greater person by far than you ever dreamed yourself to be.”  Patanjali

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